Ever since I was younger, I always have noticed something odd about my labia. I became sexually active at a young age, but no one has ever commented on them before. When I turned 18, I decided to get a piercing down there to help distract from my labia, which I love (it’s great sexually, too), but I still get self conscious about my labia when getting intimate with a guy. Any advice?
The starting point would be to get comfortable with yourself and your body – once you have overcome that hurdle and have come to embrace your uniqueness, it will be easy to open up to the right guy. And by the right guy, I mean someone mature, caring and accepting of you as you are.